Brother Burdened By Too Much Information
This month's Murphy's Love column considers the age old question of whether I tell my friend/family member that I know his/her spouse is cheating. Many of us have faced a similar challenge - I know something you don't know, and am trying to figure out whether you need to know it or not. There are many angles to this predicament, but the underlying truth in most of these situations is that the unknowing person in question usually does know that something is wrong in their relationship. In other words, you might not be breaking her heart by telling her what you've learned, you just might be breaking the bubble of denial in which she's hiding. The real issue here is in how you reveal the information. Read the full article here.