A 2-Parter: Cold Shoulder From a Friend

Recently I have been able to work on two advice columns addressing questions from the same person - both regarding her relationship with an old friend. We've all been there - an old friend from school is now part of your adult circle of friends, and there are new rules about how that friendship should proceed, but they aren't always clear. Stretching and growing into a fully human being - naming the problems we face and then working on fixing them - that is the hallmark of an adult relationship. But sometimes the other person isn't quite ready to stretch and grow into the honesty that's required to deepen and transform the relationship. Take a look at Part One here and Part Two here.